Rachel Lindsay is sharing new insight into the end of her marriage to Bryan Abasolo.
During the December 2 episode of the Lovett or Leave It podcast, the former Bachelorette spoke to Obama speechwriter Jon Levett about what ultimately led to their split.
“The reasons we broke up — I saw all the things before, but I wanted to have kids and I wanted to be married and I wanted to be loved. It’s like sad, it’s kind of sad,” she admitted.
Lindsay added that her experience mirrors what she’s seen among many women around her.
“I know a lot of women who put their careers first and they look up one day and they want other things for themselves and they don’t have them. And they kind of settle or compromise in ways that they wouldn’t normally do because of their desires.”

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